Wealth Therapy: Understanding Yourself & Your Relationships

UHNW Psychologist for Couples & Individuals

“Our different values related to wealth caused much friction amongst us as a family… This all changed when we started working with Dr Lami. She helped us and worked with us to resolve all these issues. It is still work in progress, but we have clarity and a direction.”

B & D, Park City, UTA, USA

Affluence can bring a different set of challenges because, despite the material comfort, no one is sheltered from the hurt and pain that life inflicts, like relationships problems, fears, anxieties, and more.

Sometimes having material comforts hinders dealing with such life challenges. It can create obstacles to talking about wellbeing issues or emotional problems. Spending, accumulating possessions, and travelling can become an escape from these realities, preventing individuals and couples from living an authentic life with true freedom.

Being a Ultra-High-Net wealth psychologist, a business and clinical psychologist, a second-generation family member, and a coach, Dr Lami provides a safe, confidential, and constructive way to resolve and navigate wellbeing issues experienced by her clients.

Challenges faced by UHNW  Couples & Individuals:

Relationship with Money & Wealth

Financial and Non-financial Wellbeing

We all have particular relationships with money, whether we realize it or not. In the face of our faster-changing world, understanding our relationship with money and wealth, and how it affects our emotional, mental and physical wellbeing, our decisions, our lifestyle, spending and saving, as well as our peace of mind – is crucial. Most of us have developed an unhealthy or dysfunctional relationship with money, which can sabotage feelings of happiness. With help from Dr Lami you can:

  • Explore views about money and wealth and better understanding personal feelings, decision making and actions surrounding it
  • Identify unhealthy or dysfunctional money behaviors and attitudes
  • Heal unbalanced relationship with money
  • Know your money style & personality
  • Establish healthy communication about money and wealth
  • Instill healthy money values and use money as an empowering tool to create meaningful, fulfilled lives

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Individual Challenges

A Foundation For Family Alignment

There are many reasons individuals reach out to work with Dr Lami. Some of the subject clients wish to resolve are:

  • Difficulty in establishing relationships
  • Feeling ashamed, embarrassed, guilt or not deserving of your money-wealth
  • Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or dissatisfied
  • Developing self-confidence, self-esteem, and true self-worth
  • Feeling lonelier and more isolated while being further up in the hierarchy

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Couples Challenges
  • Marriage counseling
  • Resolving problems between couples
  • Create a safe and open environment to express needs and desires
  • Develop lasting trust, beyond money and wealth
  • Understanding attitudes and values: as a couple
  • Resolving communication issues, power struggles, or disagreements

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Parenting for UHNW

Preparing Your Children:
How to prepare the next generation for wealth transfer & wellbeing

“When wealth is lost matter is lost, when health is lost something is lost, when character is lost, all is lost.” – Billy Graham

Preparing children for successful wealth transfer does not happen overnight, it’s an educational and emotional process that takes time, and should be an integral part of parenting.

Research show that 95% of wealth loss is due to unprepared heirs, and only 5% of it is lost due to poor financial planning.

Therefore Dr. Lami developed her Pillars for Wealth Parenting ©. An educational process based on her PhD research findings that equip parents with the necessary knowledge and tools to facilitate a successful wealth transfer.

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Estate Planning & Wealth Transfer

How to ensure successful wealth transfer

Estate planning and transferring wealth to the next generation are both a practical and emotional process. Often with children and inheritance the idea of when and how to give our money away can make us feel uneasy. It evokes various feelings and highlights our relationship with money, our children and ourselves. In today’s world, the complexities of estate planning require the consideration of many different aspects.

During this process, the emotional aspects – or the “soft issues” – of estate planning and wealth transfer are often pushed aside or overlooked. Dr Lami has observed the harmful side of it in her work with inheritors.

Prior to starting the process of estate planning, parents should consider the emotional aspects that are associated with it and will help ensure balancing your needs and your children’s.

Before you make a decision that could possibly hurt your children, please consult with Dr. Lami on how to best go about your estate planning.

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