Bringing Families
Together
Wealth Psychology for UHNW Families
“Dr Lami has an ability to create trust and positive relationships with those she works with whilst maintaining authority and being able to challenge (even in the teeth of fierce resistance!).”
M.S.C.V, Family Business & Family Office, UK
Most people underestimate the impact money and wealth have on emotional, mental, and relational wellbeing. Dr. Lami has witnessed this firsthand in both her personal and professional life.
In her work with UHNW families, she delivers bespoke solutions that address the human challenges of wealth across generations and cultures.
“Dr Lami has delivered outcomes that have reversed years of unhealthy behaviours by helping me and family members understand the complex psychologies behind our relationships with each other and with wealth.”
M.S.C.V, Family Business & Family Office, UK
Dr Lami’s work with families focus on:
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Ensuring wealth transfer readiness
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Educating and preparing next generation family members
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Understanding family dynamics and relationships with money
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Developing healthy communication and harmonious family relationships
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Empowering women within the family system
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Integrating new family members
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Creating a sustainable legacy and family guiding framework
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Supporting healthy, conscious parenting skills
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Dr. Lami offers immersive, bespoke engagements for a limited number of clients annually. To ensure depth and lasting transformation, she provides structured projects or retainers rather than single sessions. Fees are discussed privately once alignment is confirmed.
“If you knew me, you would know that I am not someone that say much or who is easily impressed by others. In the years I, and my family, have worked with Dr Lami I have seeing that: • She has an ability to create trust and positive relationships with those she works with whilst maintaining authority and being able to challenge (even in the teeth of fierce resistance!). • Her own background has ensured that she is a fellow traveller rather than a disinterested judge of others. • She has delivered outcomes that have reversed years of unhealthy behaviours by helping me and family members understand the complex psychologies behind our relationships with each other and with wealth.”
M.S.C.V, Family Business & Family Office, UK
“• I have come across lots of people in the space of helping people work with wealth and family business. She is head and shoulders ahead in taking as her foundation a very human understanding of the subject when others are technocratic or academic in their outlooks. • She is adept at helping people address complex issues around money and relationships without appearing to judge (harder than you would think when talking about wealth!). • She is a pleasure to work with and has been consistently and totally committed to our project. • She has achieved real results and transformed people’s ability to contextualise and enjoy their lives.”
M.S.C.V, Family Business & Family Office, UK
Challenges faced by UHNW Couples & Individuals:
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Relationship with Money & Wealth
Financial and Non-Financial Wellbeing
We all have a relationship with money, and it shapes our wellbeing, decisions, and peace of mind. When this relationship is unconscious or unhealthy, it can undermine happiness and fulfilment.
With Dr Lami, you can:
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Understand your relationship with money and how it influences choices and behaviour
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Identify and heal unhelpful money patterns
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Discover your money style and values
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Build healthy, open communication about wealth
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Use money as a supportive tool for a meaningful, balanced life
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Individual Challenges
A Foundation For Family Alignment
There are many reasons individuals reach out to work with Dr Lami. Some of the subject clients wish to resolve are:
- Difficulty in establishing relationships
- Feeling ashamed, embarrassed, guilt or not deserving of your money-wealth
- Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or dissatisfied
- Developing self-confidence, self-esteem, and true self-worth
- Feeling lonelier and more isolated while being further up in the hierarchy
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Couples Challenges
- Marriage counseling
- Resolving problems between couples
- Create a safe and open environment to express needs and desires
- Develop lasting trust, beyond money and wealth
- Understanding attitudes and values: as a couple
- Resolving communication issues, power struggles, or disagreements
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Parenting for UHNW
Preparing Your Children:
How to prepare the next generation for wealth transfer & wellbeing
"When wealth is lost matter is lost, when health is lost something is lost, when character is lost, all is lost.” - Billy Graham
Preparing children for successful wealth transfer does not happen overnight, it’s an educational and emotional process that takes time, and should be an integral part of parenting.
Research show that 95% of wealth loss is due to unprepared heirs, and only 5% of it is lost due to poor financial planning.
Therefore Dr. Lami developed her Pillars for Wealth Parenting ©. An educational process based on her PhD research findings that equip parents with the necessary knowledge and tools to facilitate a successful wealth transfer.
Estate Planning & Wealth Transfer
How to ensure successful wealth transfer
Estate planning and transferring wealth to the next generation are both a practical and emotional process. Often with children and inheritance the idea of when and how to give our money away can make us feel uneasy. It evokes various feelings and highlights our relationship with money, our children and ourselves. In today’s world, the complexities of estate planning require the consideration of many different aspects.
During this process, the emotional aspects – or the “soft issues” – of estate planning and wealth transfer are often pushed aside or overlooked. Dr Lami has observed the harmful side of it in her work with inheritors.
Prior to starting the process of estate planning, parents should consider the emotional aspects that are associated with it and will help ensure balancing your needs and your children’s.
Before you make a decision that could possibly hurt your children, please consult with Dr. Lami on how to best go about your estate planning.
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