Dr. Lami’s Philosophy and Style
“Be careful to leave your sons well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant” Epictetus
Dr Lami’s work focuses on finding creative and relevant solutions to the non-financial challenges of wealth by facilitating, advising, educating and coaching clients to develop a deeper understanding of their respective mind-sets and the impact that emotional intelligence has on matters relating to wealth, relationships, parenting, family history, planning and succession.
Emotional intelligence (EQ) has a direct impact on performance in every aspect of our lives. Just as our IQ determines our capacity to learn, EQ determines our level of financial success, as well as how we feel about money, how we handle it and what we do with it.
Relationships can be stressed or hurt when financial affairs are perceived by one side or another as unfair. When this happens, communication can break down and resentment builds. This deeply effects a family’s ability to move forward and for its members to fulfil their potential. A breakdown in relationships can often lead to children becoming complacent and demotivated and/or marital problems triggered by jealousy, perceived unfairness, despair or depression.
Known by her clients as a “Heart and Mind Alchemist” because of her ability to perceive what lies beyond the surface, Dr Lami has developed a process that examines the connection between emotional intelligence and improved performance.
She acts as a facilitator in family discussions helping clients to improve relationships between family members, couples or children, as well as amongst family business members and family offices. She guides her clients to understand themselves better, find solutions to their challenges and take actions, providing them with insights, tools and techniques to help them overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.
No two people and no two families are the same. As such, there can be no blueprint for Dr Lami’s work. The needs of every client are unique. For this reason, all of her work is tailored to the specific needs of individual clients.
All matters discussed are treated in complete confidence and with the utmost discretion.