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The Psychology of Success: How Do We Relate to Success?

The Psychology of Success: How Do We Relate to Success? There are a few mistakes people make with regards to success or their relationship with it. The most overlooked one is the fact that the majority of people equate success with the achievement of money, wealth, fame or power. The other most identifiable mistakes [...]

By | 2017-12-09T18:21:38+00:00 January 11th, 2017|money and happiness, self-worth, success|0 Comments

Is There a Roadmap to Success?

Is There a Roadmap to Success? Trying to create a roadmap to success, by definition, is a failed attempt. The dictionary defines a roadmap as “a detailed plan or explanation to guide you in setting standards or determining a course of action”. In the context of a roadmap to success the definition will be: [...]

By | 2017-12-09T18:28:27+00:00 January 11th, 2017|psychology, roadmap, success|0 Comments

Affluenza, an Unhealthy Relationship with Money

Affluenza, an Unhealthy Relationship with Money Money is the single most transformational substance in our society. It is seductive, alluring, fascinating, and perceived as greatly desirable. It is everyone’s dream. But can this dream turn into a nightmare? Many of us live in affluent times. Never in history have so many of us [...]

By | 2017-12-09T18:36:11+00:00 January 11th, 2017|Affluenza, psychology, relationship with Money, success, wanting more|0 Comments

Affluenza and Wealth Psychology: When Your Spouse Spends Too Much…

Affluenza and Wealth Psychology: When Your Spouse Spends Too Much... Client: “My husband and I both come from families of wealth and are lucky enough not having to had to work beyond managing the incomes our parents had created for us. In the five years we’ve been married we’ve traveled extensively, done philanthropic work [...]

By | 2018-06-29T18:53:16+00:00 January 11th, 2017|Affluenza, couples, dysfunctional relationship wealth|0 Comments

Money and Psychology: Having It All And Still Feeling ‘Amiss’?

Having It All And Still Feeling 'Amiss'? During my work I have observed  that many successful and intelligent people and families who have almost everything money can buy, share that they experience challenges relating to their wealth, success or statues beyond investments, succession, governance structure or wealth preservation. At times they even experience [...]

The Psychology of Relationships: Have a Need to Control Your Spouse?

The Psychology of Relationships: Have a Need to Control Your Spouse? A person who has existing inner feelings of helplessness, worthlessness, weakness, lack of confidence or other difficult emotions, will exercise emotional or physical control over their spouse (usually subconsciously), in order to force things to go their way and according to their will. [...]

By | 2017-12-10T09:06:08+00:00 January 11th, 2017|control, couples, unhealthy relationship|0 Comments

Relationship Psychology: Behind Any Power Struggle There Is a Need for Control

Relationship Psychology: Behind Any Power Struggle There Is a Need for Control Behind every argument there is a hidden power struggle. At the early stages of a relationship, getting into a fight resembles a small crack in a water dam. Initially, the crack can be easily fixed, but with the passing of time, the [...]

By | 2017-12-10T09:13:33+00:00 January 11th, 2017|control, couples, power struggle|0 Comments

The Psychology of an Unhealthy Relationship

The Psychology of an Unhealthy Relationship In an unhealthy relationship, information is coming in and going out without filtration and without restraint; the relationship loses its strength and becomes frail and fragile. The couple cannot produce a safe space between them, and other figures are treading between them. In a relationship where a conflict [...]

By | 2017-12-10T09:58:22+00:00 January 11th, 2017|couples, unhealthy relationship|0 Comments